Tuesday, January 24, 2012

For better or for worse....



Our wedding day!



Hmm... what does the "worse" mean? We always think about the "better"...vacations.... how many kids will we have? Will we live in this house for ever? Will we move to another state?


Do you worry about the worse??.... Defiantly not when we say "for worse" on Our Wedding day, a day we promise to love and cherish each other, in sickness and health and better or worse...




Our first year of marriage was everything I thought it would be! I love my hubby and I love living life with him! He is awesome! I am pretty sure the first year was more of an adjustment for him than me! It was a good year! Last year we went to dinner and a movie on our Anniversary! Than a trip to G'burg a couple weeks later! It was a blast!!

Photo booth at movies!
Sooo.... on to the second year!! This is where the "worse" part comes in! Shortly after our trip to G'burg, by short I mean 4 days! Our basement flooded with raw sewage!.... Which makes me think family Christmas vacation.....you know the sh*tters full...anyway we thought that maybe we had fixed the problem .....




but....
Our back yard being dug up!




We didn't. So just 6 days shy of our two year wedding Anniversary it happened again! Thankfully my in laws live close and LOVE having us around so we were able to stay there till all the details of what needed to be done were worked out! Luckily my husband loves Jesus and me and I love Jesus and him so this "for worse" part was not that bad! We just prayed and continued to communicate how we were really handling this "worse" and you know what.... what doesn't kill you will make you stronger! God worked the details of this in such a cool way! Blessing upon blessing flowed down!! We are so thankful!! ....So we will take the summer and maybe fall off from hosting parties but we can flush the toilet! :-)


Niki

Tuesday, January 3, 2012

Not much of a fighter.....

It's 2012!! I love to party on New Years....(who would have guessed!) but I am not one for making resolutions and all that jazz! There are a million things in my life I would like to change...my weight...that fact that I say Yes to way to many things, I am VERY unorganized... this is not my list ;) The one thing I want in my life is a rich, dependent relationship with God.... I had it at one time and seemed to miss place it....I think a better way to describe it would be that I stopped fighting for it. At some point in this last year I starting fighting the wrong side...turned my back on what I know to be true. I saw sin and choose not to deal with it. I know the put off put on that Paul talks about.... I did it, but not the right way I put off what God calls me to do and put on my desires. I fought only for what I wanted. The independence of running my life.

I am realizing all of this now...I am very thankful to be able to see it. I can't really explain the new understanding I have of last year its alot and messy... I can only say that it was by God's grace that I see it! The last few days I have had consistent time in His word and been able to reflect on my attitude to the last year. I am using a daily bible reading plan to start the discipline of reading everyday again. Which has been awesome! I believe last year was a dry season!!! Very dry! Why I ever thought that I could live with out the life giving water just seems plain stupid! I am excited to be back in love with my Savior!








Niki



Monday, January 2, 2012

Starting the search!





This is my family!........and

Well this is the start of my blog?!?! I have played with the idea for a while for many reason...crafts...my relationship with God and just life with my little man and best friend Steve! So we shall see where this goes!




Niki